Hey y'all

Love for music has been the only constant thing in my life. Everything else is just unpredictable, amazing and at times, downright alarming! So, this blog is dedicated to music and my unpredictable, amazing and alarming life.... xoxo.





Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Dont stop.

Okay, it gets serious when in a conversation, i'm the one saying, "You have to believe in love!" I was having a conversation with a guy and he told me of how his girlfriend hurt him and basically smashed his heart into a million tiny pieces. Now, he absolutely does not believe in love and its sad and frightening. Apparently, he's seeing someone and its serious on her part but not on his; He says, its so whenever she feels the need to walk away, it doesn't affect him.
This is bad, because at some point we've all had our hearts broken, is this how we all respond to heartbreak? If its the way we feel, little wonder relationships are always breaking up and married people are getting divorces. The world is becoming a vicious cycle of people who in their desperate need to protect themselves from heartache end up hurting people who in turn hurt other people.
Due to the fear of heartbreak, we've locked away the part of us that gives a hundred per cent, we no longer trust, we dont let ourselves really get into it. How on earth are relationships supposed to work when either one party is giving less than they should or in some cases, both parties arent giving as they ought to?
I know it hurts bad when your heart gets broken, but we can't risk not feeling the real thing because we've been hurt before. If you've ever been in an accident, that doesn't mean you dont get in a car again. You get in a car, you drive and you do it carefully. The point is, you drive.
Please, we have to take a chance, we cant afford to not take a chance on finding love. I have to believe that if we hold on long enough, we'll find the love that only the poets can fully describe. We cannot stop believing, i cannot stop believing, and you cant either. Dont ever stop.

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